Actually i've been thinking abt this the whole night...

i seriously dun understand how certain people can be so so so blinded by love...

and there's this certain person---my couzzie..

ok..i myself had been in love before and i can understand that when u love someone, u'll want to do everything for that person. its to the extend that i cna be at his beck and call and i wun mind one bit....BUT...there is still a limit. i'll know when his favours are too much.

sadly, thats not the case for my cousin. he's just so---argggg-----dumb. i thnk my frustration is so damn visible. As a girl myself...i know exactly what his ex-girlfriend is thinking. that bitch is just making use of him!!---rather, his money, his car and himself(to do favours for her). when u know yer guy cant get over u, and will do whatever it takes to win u back, u'll take the opportunity to get him to do stuffs for u like a pathetic puppy would for the owner.

ok. i'm being mean to describe it this way. not like i treated anyone like this before. i would never. i'm not a bitch. ok lets not digress. to me, my cousin is behaving so pathetically like as though she's the only woman left on earth. yes....they've had an 8-yr r/s. it'll be difficult to get over her esp when she's the one that DUMPED him.

and precisely cuz she dumped him, i find it highly suspicious that she continues to ask him to drive her here and there, go shopping with her(and he pays for everything!) and the whole family bought insurance from her!! and from what i know from my aunt, they're not sure if my couzzie and her are considered a couple again cuz there's times when she ignores him and there's times when she talks to him..

ARGGGGG....be my judge....isnt it so FUCKing obvious that she doesnt love him?? she just wants him to be a favor-slave!! its difficult...but i thnk my couzzie should display more masculity and backbone and learn forget abt her and move on with life. OR if he doesn't wanna forget her, then at least confront her and get her to make clear what their r/s status is!!!!

and if she says that she treats him only as a friend, then its fine he drives her ard....and if they go shopping, he should make her pay for her own stuff......... even i dun make my BOYFRIEND pays for my stuff ALL THE TIME...cuz he does tt for her ALL THE TIME...even her driving lessons are paid for by my couzzie!! so if BOYFRIENDS are NOT OBLIGED to pay everything for his girlfriend, he as a normal fren shld all the more NOT do it.

his just too blinded. when i saw him yst night, i really felt like giving him 2 tight slap to wake him up from his wistful dream. i'm so mad with him. why cant he have more pride than to give in to her?? if she can have the heart to break up with him with an sms, after an 8-yr long r/s, and then ignored him for days, and didnt return him the diamond jewelleries he bought her over the 8 yrs, and then suddenly looking for him again to get him to buy insurance from her.......what makes him thnk she truely love him and wun kick him away when she finally found someone richer than him??

he's dumb. so pathetically dumb.....and sighz...pitiful.

i hope he'll wake up in time before more cost and hurts are incurred.